I Found Out: Size Doesn’t Matter!

Yes ladies and gentleman I have uncovered the answer and the secret behind the age old question, “Does size matter?”. Nope. I did not discover this until very recently, last week I believe. I’m not sure who did it but someone taught us to believe that if a man does not have a penis at least 6 inches long and thick enough to fill your kitty then you should proceed no further. We have been taught that the vagina can be stretched out, there’s only so many miles you can put on it, and then it’s a waste. That’s why men like younger women right?

I have news for you my friend. There is saving for your vagina whether its been stroked for decades or you just began with an 8 inch monstrosity.

It’s all up to the woman.

Sex feels good depending on the woman and what she knows, and what she should know is how to flex her PC muscles. If you properly and regularly exercise your PC muscles then your vagina will be able to adjust to the size of the man’s penis and remain that way for the duration of the sexual encounter. So what does this mean? Your vagina should never be stretched out, and he should never feel too small. Allow me to explain what the PC muscle is. According to Answers.com…

“A muscle formed of the fibers of the elevator muscle of the anus, arising from the pelvic surface of the body of the pubis, and attaching to the coccyx.

The pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle is a hammock-like muscle, found in both sexes, that stretches from the pubic bone to the coccyx (tail bone) forming the floor of the pelvic cavity and supporting the pelvic organs. It is part of the levator ani group of muscles.

Kegel exercises

Kegel exercises are a set of exercises designed to strengthen and give voluntary control over the pubococcygeus muscles. They are often referred to simply as “kegels”. These exercises also serve to contract the cremaster muscle in men, as voluntary contraction of the pubococcygeus muscle also engages the cremasteric reflex, which lifts the testicles up, although this does not occur in all men. This will make the penis rise, and control can be achieved with practice.”

Do your Kegels ladies and gentlemen!

My personal experience learning this went something like as follows. For one, I began to practice Kegels earlier this summer heavily (as soon as I could understand what they did). I read books over the Tao and I study Tantra. So last week I began to have a sexual encounter with a potential suitor when he pulled his clothes off and I was surprised. It was not was I usually get and not what I expected. Seeing how it had been so long since I had gotten some (you can read this post to find out how important that is to me) I decided to make the best of it and enjoy him at his core which is a kingly man… yang energy at its best. So we began and as I expected I wasn’t enjoying myself truly. Then I had to stop myself and think “Hey, I have the necessary tools to make this the experience I want this to be. Why don’t I use it?”. I proceeded to clench my PC muscle and grasp him more and more. I would be lying my ass off if I said that didn’t make all the difference in the world!!! We became more passionate than I ever pictured the two of us to be together!

We took a break.

The 2nd round was even more amazing than the first because somehow my vagina became tighter than before. I guess that’s what happens when you squeeze him like an insane mad woman. We even had trouble getting it in for a moment! But when we did it was like magic and I was proud of myself for mastering something that will keep me satisfied for the rest of my life.

Kitty Katana~

Finally Got Some Sex

What a relief! I was getting ready to turn into a monstrous homicidal bitch if I didn’t get some good sex. Disappointment after disappointment, I finally got some of what I deserved, which is some good yang energy served up on platter all for the healing of both of us. My vagina is so pleased with me right now. My morning started off so great that I even got a free cup of coffee and that never hurts!

Sex has become something so important to me and it’s vital to my existence as a peaceful human being. You wouldn’t want to imagine who I would become if I didn’t have sex for 6 months. I guess a reason why it’s so important is because that is one of the few times in my independent life where I can be dependent, ultra-feminine, and surrender all. In this modern day life us women are trained and psychologically developed to be independent and in my particular culture we are taught that we don’t even need men! What kind of crazy shit is that? I need men, I don’t know what you’re talking about bitch. Oh yeah, I’m needy too. Seems funny coming from a woman doesn’t it? Well I have news, women need men and vice versa. Only when I am interacting with men can I be who I truly am. I’m a loving, affectionate, passionate, and creative being. Guess who I get my inspiration from? MEN!

Another reason why sex is so important to me is because it provides the balance needed in my life. I have strong feminine magic which gets me pretty much anything I want when used correctly but I need that power to be tamed every now and then. I truly desire to not be so independent but the circumstances of my life have made my life become this way temporarily. So what happens to a woman who is forced to use her masculinity in order to thrive? If she doesn’t combine her yin energy with yang energy of a man, she will soon become a man. Of course she won’t become a man in a physical sense, but mentally and energetically she will become a man. My mother is one of those kinds of women. I work with a women who has become a man. These are women that have convinced themselves that they do not need men, sex, or high interaction with the opposite sex. It is deemed unnecessary. Seeing how humans need yin and yang energy to survive it only makes sense that if you don’t get enough of a type of energy, you become both.

I am determined to stay feminine, loving, and flirtatious even though I’m currently not in a relationship and live an independent lifestyle. I find time in some form or fashion to break down the wall I build to protect myself from the world and follow the leader that is man. Do you? If you are a man, do you take the time to be a leader and have your masculinity strengthened by pleasing a woman? You should.

Also, recently I have been trying an experiment presented to me by JujuMama to flirt with the world! This challenge calls women to be flirtatious with all men in general in order to receive the man you want and/or have men in general love you back. I love men anyways so this really isn’t too tough for me, but what about the snaggle-tooth guy driving the hooptie with stank breath and 2 baby mamas? Exactly. The idea is that you may not appreciate his current circumstance but at his yang energy essence is a king and you are attracted to that. At his core, he is man and that is really all you need in order to be flirtatious. I tried it and after I don’t know how many months I met someone whom I’m really hitting it off with.

So try it.

Love men (or women) in general and watch the opposite sex parade you with affection!

Kitty Katana~

I love Jujumamablog.com

This is an excerpt from my favorite blog on the internet that I simply cannot do without. I love Jujumama’s perspective on common everyday situations, and how she takes it as an opportunity to grow. It’s a post about how loving all men in general will allow you to receive the love you desire from any man. Feminine magic at it’s best! Let me know what you think of it!

Wow!  Last night I had a very powerful experience.  The background is simple.  I have a Universal Love in NYC and I miss him.  When I was there this summer for the tour, which he helped me coordinate, we did not have a chance to “get together”.  He is very busy with things in the city, and I am always busy with things for Jujumama.  But that isn’t why we did not “hook up”.  In fact, I was walking on Broadway and 28th looking for a dress for the event when he found me!  Apparently he had called my husband to find out where I was.  He came to the hotel, to surprise me, but I was on the avenue shopping when we literally ran into each other…

He helped me.  As usual, this Universal Love is always helping me.  He hooks me up with the right people,  he cares about my career and about my happiness.  He is so YANG n YUMMY!  So when I exasperatingly expressed that I needed a dress and to have my hair done,  he quickly showed me the places in the Jungle of the NYC streets where I could get everything I needed in a pinch!  And then it was done!  After my hair do, he came back to escort me to the event in his luscious SUV with black tinted windows and smooth rims to match.  I was a lil late, but that’s OK.  giggle…

He tried to do a few things with me, kinky things, that I could not do, would not do because of the show.  I was late and nervous and all of that… and he was going to sweat my hair out!  Damn!  Thinking back,  I should have done some of those kinky things, I should have said YES…  had I done them, I would have been much more relaxed when I arrived!  LOL!  But I said NO, oddly.  I believe this hurt him.  After all, he was only trying to heal me and relax me… all men are trying to heal women when they suggest kinky interludes… don’t ya’ll know that?  Some women get their panties ruffled over small things…  Men seek to remove the panties and thus the stress!

So long story short.  This man is a really good man.  But, he didn’t come to the show because he had business to take care of.  I suppose he could have told me that as a manager, he had to be in the studio with his artists that Friday nights.  But he didn’t.  And so not coming my show was a stike against him. And, I thought he hadn’t called me afterward, when later I found he had, several times.  We were supposed to spend the evening together… but instead I went to bed angry that he “didn’t call me” and did not show up!  Did I call him?  No!  Why not?  Because he didn’t call me!  (Old paradigm foolishness)

The next day he was angry with me… (continue reading)

Post by JujuMama

He Said This & She Said That…

 He Said This & She Said That…

This blog is in regards to the Chris Brown incident. At first I was not going to give this event any kind of publicity on my blog but I feel like I must address the issue. I want to say to everyone and anyone who believes that Chris Brown beat Rihanna that YOU WERE NOT THERE. I am not defending or accusing anyone. I just want to say that the only fact I know for sure is that Chris Brown went to jail. We truly do not know who the victim was even though we can so easily place our sights on Rihanna. I also want to point out that we do not know how Rihanna treats Chris Brown. There are abusive woman/submissive man relationships out there. 

 

 

My whole point is that I wasn’t there, and you probably weren’t either. So who should we believe? The media?

 

 

 

Kitty Katana~